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This was me in 2025. 2025 was a horrendous year for me. All possible things bad happened to me that year. The capitulation was in 3 tiers. Financial, emotional and medical. I was fighting on 3 fronts like in a guerrilla warfare. I lost my job in Jan, lost thousands of dollars worth of crypto asset which was a large chunk of my savings for the previous 4 years that same jan, then went ahead to be jobless for the next 6 months. Taking care of my living expenses became a hard and tough ask. To make matters worse, I then lost a 3 year relationship in March I thought I would draw emotional support from. I thought I was going to die cos i loved that girl to bits and we were going to get married. Till date, i sometimes still ask myself what i did wrong and so does most of our mutual friends too. Then it got worse, my health followed suit. I fainted and collapsed twice in a month. First was on a lift at a hotel when i went to see someone, the second was at the staircase of my house. Was in and out of the hospital throughout last year more than i could count cos I was always falling sick. Then my grades in school tanked and my academic performance got so bad that I lost a semester. I was so troubled and distraught emotionally especially bc of the breakup bc i gave and poured my life in that relationship and the timing of the breakup couldn't be any worse. Never been through such emotional turmoil my whole life before. I live in a 3 bedroom flat but couldnt sleep on a mattress. I always had sleeping disorder that I couldn't sleep anywhere but my kitchen. I slept at the floor of my kitchen every night with my pillow for 3 months. What kept me going was my faith in Jesus and quality relationships I had around me. It was really a trying season for me. A friend of mine volunteered to stay with me for 3 months and it helped a great deal. By the end of dec I had regained emotional stability and had gotten another job. It wasn't as good as the previous, but it was sustainable. March this year, exactly one year after I broke up with my ex, a mentor introduced me to a young, non chaotic, intelligent and extremely gorgeous medical doctor who loves me like a lot. This lady has improved the quality of my life all round in the 8 months we've been together and has shown with it really means to love someone purely and wholeheartedly. My experience so far with her is a direct opposite of the 3 years I spent with my ex and no shades to her cos she really does have her good side and qualities and I really think she's a good person. Someone said that whatever obstruction we are having now is temporal bc the road ahead is always clear. Just bc there's traffic obstruction at a section of a road trip doesn't mean the entire road and journey has obstruction. The road ahead is always clear. Just stay grounded you will certainly pass through this and come out stronger, wiser and better. Tough times don't really last but tough people do. I hope this helps a bit @TheRealWeb3Kat

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