If you are stressed about the markets I want you to take a minute to think about this. Everything you're stressed about today will be invisible from your deathbed except one category, and we organize our entire lives around the wrong list. The research on dying regrets is remarkably consistent. Nobody mentions the unanswered emails, messy house, the missed promotion, the argument they lost, the body that wasn't lean enough for that summer. What remains is a short, brutal list, and it's almost all subtractions. It consists of love not expressed, courage not used, friendships left to starve, years given to performances for people whose opinions were never worth any time. The dying don't regret what they did nearly as much as what was postponed which was almost always connection and authenticity. And they deferred these things in favor of the urgent. But we ignore these things because the urgent list screams at us everyday. If this is you... try asking yourself one thing. Ask yourself, will this exist at the end? And you'll find out what's important to you.